Blessings Darlings!
In our last installment of the Havamal, I sort of declare that it was aimed at .... a business traveler. Doesn't matter it the traveler is a trader or raider, I suppose, ultimately, the point is to return richer than when you set out. So, where does the text take us now?
The man who stands at a strange threshold
Should be cautious before he cross it.
Glance this way and that:
Who knows beforehand what foes may sit
Awaiting him in the hall?
Greetings to the host,
The guest has arrived,
In which seat shall he sit?
Rash is he who at unknown doors
Relies on his good luck.
Well, what do you know - it sound like skills from the Ninjitsu training I had! Situational awareness - scope out your surroundings at all times. Especially in a group of people you are meeting for the first time, you will not know all the alliances, and certainly not all the history.
We were rather in that situation a year ago, when we moved. Among our neighbors, who were the power brokers? Would the HOA really enforce the rules on garbage cans, and if so, who would be reporting violations? What families don't get along? Scoping out the hidden alliances and sand traps was necessary!
Our approach - rely on courtesy, our operating motto "Don't embarrass the neighbors". Keep the yard neat, help neighborhood upkeep, wave at every car we pass/passes the house if we're outside.
It's also our business approach, but more on that in a few verses.
Fire is needed by the newcomer
Whose knees are frozen numb,
Meat and clean linen a man needs
Who has fared across the fells.
Water, too, that he may wash before eating,
Handclothes and a hearty welcome,
Courteous words, then courteous silence
that he may tell his tale.
The ball is back in the host's court here. Hosts have responsibilities. Hang up their coats. Show them to the restroom. Get them a cup of coffee, or meal or whatever the situation is. And then scope the guest out!
The assorted rights and responsibilities of guests and hosts are very much like the handshaking done by the machines when you send a fax. They make sure that everyone is using a communication platform that works at both ends.
While you're at it, check their company's D&B listing.
More in our next installment!
Frondly, Fern
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Monday, January 30, 2012
Friday, January 27, 2012
Havamal, Part 1
Blessings Darlings!
So, how does the Havamal start? Like this:
Young and alone on a long road,
once I lost my way:
Rich I felt when I found another;
Man rejoices in man,
A kind word need not cost much,
The price of praise can be cheap:
With half a loaf and an empty cup
I found myself a friend,
Two wooden stakes stood on the plain,
On them I hung my clothes;
Draped in linen, they looked well born,
But, naked, I was a nobody.
Too early to many homes I came,
Too late, it seemed, to some:
The ale was finished or else un-brewed,
The unpopular cannon please,
Some would invite me to visit their homes,
But none thought I needed a meal,
As though I had eaten a whole joint,
Just before with a friend who had two.
We start the poem on the road. Which makes sense, since Odhinn would be talking to His people, not to Thor's people or Heartha's people, etc. (Thor's men, being working men, are more tied to the lands/fields of home.) Being on the road means you have given up the comforts of home in search of something more. It's not like doing this make you the equivalent of the 'superior man' in the I Ching, but it DOES speak of a certain amount of ambition or drive to better oneself and ones position in life.
Or, as we say in Ar nDraiocht Fein (ADF) - why not excellence?
And yet ....
There's clearly a difference between leaving one's comfort zone and being lost and alone. Guides, companions ... humans were then, and still are now, tribal. We may define tribe differently now, it can be family/kith/kin, neighbors/garth, religion based, politically based, economically based, whatever. But no one does it totally alone. Your tribe IS part of your riches.
Which leads, of course, to the issue of hospitality and how one treats strangers and travelers. Not only could you be the stranger/traveler soon, but the stranger at your door could be Odhinn (or Zeus, or Hermes, or Macha, or Finn, or.... well, you Pagans get it). True, being on the road now isn't a much a life-threatening challenge it was back in the day.
Simple politeness is clearly the essence of hospitality. Giving kind words, sharing half a loaf.
Then the 'don't mistake fine clothes for a fine person'. Just as true now with fashion ad pricy clothes as it was then with linen vs. rough working folks clothes!
And don't mistake having fine clothes with being well-fed, either on the road or at home, actually. Assume that others need care and feeding - offer food, drink, again, common courtesy.
Actually, this sort of brings up eating with your guests/business meetings/etc. "Gosh we've run out of food' for you, or "we don't eat good food here, so have none to share" are old tricks. Egyptians not eating with others is mentioned in the Bible, and now kashrut laws for Jews and Halal vs Haram food issues for Moslems, not to mention trying to offer hospitality to vegans or trying to account for food allergies, can really cause problems in offering hospitality. Where do the responsibility of good host vs good guest get drawn? Back then, it was just 'share what you have'. Now - we smoke a damn fine pulled pork here, but it's sure not something I can offer my kosher relatives (some of which won't eat in my house at all).
Thus ends part 1 of our look at the Havamal. More to come! This WILL take a while, and may or may not be a daily thing - depends on how life goes. After all, I still have recipes to share, and opinions on what's happening in the world to spout, too.
Frondly, Fern
So, how does the Havamal start? Like this:
Young and alone on a long road,
once I lost my way:
Rich I felt when I found another;
Man rejoices in man,
A kind word need not cost much,
The price of praise can be cheap:
With half a loaf and an empty cup
I found myself a friend,
Two wooden stakes stood on the plain,
On them I hung my clothes;
Draped in linen, they looked well born,
But, naked, I was a nobody.
Too early to many homes I came,
Too late, it seemed, to some:
The ale was finished or else un-brewed,
The unpopular cannon please,
Some would invite me to visit their homes,
But none thought I needed a meal,
As though I had eaten a whole joint,
Just before with a friend who had two.
We start the poem on the road. Which makes sense, since Odhinn would be talking to His people, not to Thor's people or Heartha's people, etc. (Thor's men, being working men, are more tied to the lands/fields of home.) Being on the road means you have given up the comforts of home in search of something more. It's not like doing this make you the equivalent of the 'superior man' in the I Ching, but it DOES speak of a certain amount of ambition or drive to better oneself and ones position in life.
Or, as we say in Ar nDraiocht Fein (ADF) - why not excellence?
And yet ....
There's clearly a difference between leaving one's comfort zone and being lost and alone. Guides, companions ... humans were then, and still are now, tribal. We may define tribe differently now, it can be family/kith/kin, neighbors/garth, religion based, politically based, economically based, whatever. But no one does it totally alone. Your tribe IS part of your riches.
Which leads, of course, to the issue of hospitality and how one treats strangers and travelers. Not only could you be the stranger/traveler soon, but the stranger at your door could be Odhinn (or Zeus, or Hermes, or Macha, or Finn, or.... well, you Pagans get it). True, being on the road now isn't a much a life-threatening challenge it was back in the day.
Simple politeness is clearly the essence of hospitality. Giving kind words, sharing half a loaf.
Then the 'don't mistake fine clothes for a fine person'. Just as true now with fashion ad pricy clothes as it was then with linen vs. rough working folks clothes!
And don't mistake having fine clothes with being well-fed, either on the road or at home, actually. Assume that others need care and feeding - offer food, drink, again, common courtesy.
Actually, this sort of brings up eating with your guests/business meetings/etc. "Gosh we've run out of food' for you, or "we don't eat good food here, so have none to share" are old tricks. Egyptians not eating with others is mentioned in the Bible, and now kashrut laws for Jews and Halal vs Haram food issues for Moslems, not to mention trying to offer hospitality to vegans or trying to account for food allergies, can really cause problems in offering hospitality. Where do the responsibility of good host vs good guest get drawn? Back then, it was just 'share what you have'. Now - we smoke a damn fine pulled pork here, but it's sure not something I can offer my kosher relatives (some of which won't eat in my house at all).
Thus ends part 1 of our look at the Havamal. More to come! This WILL take a while, and may or may not be a daily thing - depends on how life goes. After all, I still have recipes to share, and opinions on what's happening in the world to spout, too.
Frondly, Fern
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Thursday, January 26, 2012
Winter Nights
Blessings Darlings!
Back in the day - and I mean REALLY back in Europe, from the iron age until industrialization - winter was the time for learning history, poetry, culture, wisdom. After all, in summer the herds would be out in the fields being watched by the original cow boys from dawn till dusk. And dawn was really early, and dusk really late.
But in winter, the thinned herds were kept in the village so you could easily feed and water them. Dawn was late, dusk early, so you didn't crash as soon as the sun went down. And, in Ireland, even the Fianna bunked in towns during the winter. So after dinner you could head over to the neighbor's place and the elders would tell the stories, share the poetry and tales.
So I think I'll go there in this blog for a while. I'll start with the words of the Havamal and some of my own commentary on it, how it applies to MY life. I'm not going to pretend to be overly knowledgeable about the time it comes from, after all!
The Havamal is part of the Poetic Edda, a collection of Old Norse poetry. It is, fundamentally, common sense served up by Odhinn. Common sense being, well, awfully uncommon lately, it seems like a great place to start.
I'll be using the Auden & Taylor translation, which is all over the interwebs and appears to be public domain.
If any of y'all are knowledgeable about the times this comes from, or have other insights to add, PLEASE add comments as we go along! I'm no expert historian, nor am I Asatruar or anyone who has really studied this in context.
Frondly, Fern
Back in the day - and I mean REALLY back in Europe, from the iron age until industrialization - winter was the time for learning history, poetry, culture, wisdom. After all, in summer the herds would be out in the fields being watched by the original cow boys from dawn till dusk. And dawn was really early, and dusk really late.
But in winter, the thinned herds were kept in the village so you could easily feed and water them. Dawn was late, dusk early, so you didn't crash as soon as the sun went down. And, in Ireland, even the Fianna bunked in towns during the winter. So after dinner you could head over to the neighbor's place and the elders would tell the stories, share the poetry and tales.
So I think I'll go there in this blog for a while. I'll start with the words of the Havamal and some of my own commentary on it, how it applies to MY life. I'm not going to pretend to be overly knowledgeable about the time it comes from, after all!
The Havamal is part of the Poetic Edda, a collection of Old Norse poetry. It is, fundamentally, common sense served up by Odhinn. Common sense being, well, awfully uncommon lately, it seems like a great place to start.
I'll be using the Auden & Taylor translation, which is all over the interwebs and appears to be public domain.
If any of y'all are knowledgeable about the times this comes from, or have other insights to add, PLEASE add comments as we go along! I'm no expert historian, nor am I Asatruar or anyone who has really studied this in context.
Frondly, Fern
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